How to message guys on dating sites

08-Oct-2017 17:04

Dating app and site Zoosk did a little research on their users and happened upon an interesting truth: 87% of good-looking guys with compelling profiles were striking out with women because they were sending the same generic message to multiple people.

We all know when we’re getting a boilerplate email from a company that wants our business, and similarly, people can sniff out a little Control C/Control V action just as easily.

The problem: You have an out-of-town wedding, then a business trip, then your parents are staying with you for a few days, and it’s going to be a couple weeks before you’re able to meet. You probably shouldn’t have messaged her in the first place.

Now it’s time to suss one another out, to see if they’re more than just a pretty face.

From this, the folks at Zoosk concluded that while copying and pasting the same message to multiple women may seem like a good way to save time, it “Hey is for horses.” Ever hear that quip from a grandparent when they overheard you using this most casual of salutations?

Well, it’s just as likely to provoke the ire of someone you’re interested on going on a date with as it did with grandpa.

Avoid these errors at all cost, and don’t forget to first make sure your profile passes muster: Here are the 12 Biggest Dating-Profile Blunders Men Make.

Yes, it’s easy to send a typo when texting back and forth—especially when you’re having rapid fire conversations with multiple potential dates—but people are going to notice, and not in a good way.

Now it’s time to suss one another out, to see if they’re more than just a pretty face.

From this, the folks at Zoosk concluded that while copying and pasting the same message to multiple women may seem like a good way to save time, it “Hey is for horses.” Ever hear that quip from a grandparent when they overheard you using this most casual of salutations?

Well, it’s just as likely to provoke the ire of someone you’re interested on going on a date with as it did with grandpa.

Avoid these errors at all cost, and don’t forget to first make sure your profile passes muster: Here are the 12 Biggest Dating-Profile Blunders Men Make.

Yes, it’s easy to send a typo when texting back and forth—especially when you’re having rapid fire conversations with multiple potential dates—but people are going to notice, and not in a good way.

According to Em, “When you dive right in and start a conversation, people are more likely to respond.